A while back I had the privilege of sitting at the feet of Pastor Knute Larsen, long-time pastor of The Chapel in Akron, Ohio and the author of
The ABF Book (Adult Bible Fellowships). For several hours, Knute shared nuggets of wisdom he had gained over many years of pastoral service. One in particular, I'll never forget:
"Remember, people don't like changes or surprises. . . and they REALLY don't like surprises!"
How true! Changes are inevitable, especially in a growing congregation, and it's usually the responsibility of Boards and Pastors to lead people through them well. One of the best things we can do to lead well through change is to avoid surprises. Change is inevitable, but surprises shouldn't be.
A few thoughts on avoiding surprises (and the pain that goes with them):
- Don't hide bad news about the congregation from the congregation. Share it kindly--be careful not to assign blame where it's not deserved--but don't hide it.
- Tell members about potential changes well before they're finalized. Even if they don't get a vote in the decision-making process, people appreciate the opportunity to share their thoughts & feelings. Your members don't always need to get their way, but they do need to be heard and understood.
- Communicate bigger changes using multiple means. The greater the change, the greater the need for communication. Talking about a significant change at a single congregational meeting is not enough. One article in the church newsletter is not enough. Use meetings and newsletters, as well as emails, verbal announcements, open forums, surveys, bulletin boards, and anything else you can think of.
One final thought on leading change: beware the danger of demonizing those who resist change. Just because someone disagrees with your proposal doesn't mean they've sided with the devil!
A few years ago, when our congregation was going through a significant change, one of my Board members sent me the following. It's been extremely helpful to me. I hope it will be for you and your congregation also.
WHY PEOPLE RESIST CHANGE
1. The risk of change is seen as greater than the risk of standing still.
2. People feel connected to other people who are identified with the old way.
3. People have no role models for the new activity.
4. People fear they lack the competence to change.
5. People feel overloaded and overwhelmed.
6. People have a healthy skepticism and want to be sure new ideas are sound.
7. People fear hidden agendas among would-be reformers.
8. People feel the proposed change threatens their notions of themselves.
9. People anticipate a loss of status or quality of life.
10. People genuinely believe that the proposed change is a bad idea.